Hey everybody, it’s Ron! Today was a little burpy because of that protein drink I had earlier, but let’s dive into something real, raw, and relevant. Today, I want to talk about safe relationships – something I’ve learned a lot about from Dr. Henry Cloud’s book.
Safe relationships are crucial in our lives. Life is choice-driven, and the choices we make in our relationships can shape our future outcomes. One of the key areas where we make choices is in who we allow into our lives and to what extent. It’s important to look out for traits of unsafe people in order to maintain healthy and safe relationships.
Unsafe people are those who think they have it all together but never admit weakness, are defensive and never open to feedback, are self-righteous instead of humble, avoid working on their problems, and blame others instead of taking responsibility. They demand trust but refuse to earn it, are unable to admit their faults, apologize but never repent or change, and lie to you.
Identifying these traits in people can help you determine if they are safe to have in your life. Boundaries are essential in relationships, and it’s important to have the courage to set those boundaries, even if it means distancing yourself from certain individuals.
In my own journey, I’ve learned to qualify the people in my life and to nurture relationships that are built on trust, honesty, and growth. As we move through different seasons of life, some people will enter and exit our lives, and that’s okay. It’s about finding those few individuals who truly see and support who we are and who we are becoming.
Remember, being a safe person goes both ways. Evaluate yourself and see if you exhibit any traits of unsafe people. It’s all about fostering relationships that uplift and support each other on our journeys.
I hope you found some value in today’s discussion. Remember to prioritize safe and healthy relationships in your life. Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, stay blessed and keep growing!